Your friend did a polite and kind thing by telling you to keep the money when he had to cancel at the last minute. If you feel like you owe him something, do something nice for him in the near future. Treat him to lunch, get him some coffee, or something like that. Keep the chain of kindness moving forward, instead of focused on the cash for
TLDR: Sister-in-law cancelled plans last minute, plans that she had suggested and this is something she always does to people - started yelling at meâŚ
r/rant ⢠1 yr. ago peri_5xg I fucking hate when people cancel plans last minute. Unless youâre super sick or something really comes up that canât be avoided, donât do it. Its rude and inconsiderate of peoples time, which is fucking valuable. Time is valuable. Let me reiterate that.
What would cause you to cancel plans for a first date at the last minute? I know there are hundreds of potential reasons but this has happened the last 3 dates I've had planned - a day or two before I'll receive a message to the effect 'hey, sorry life is so busy for me at the moment and I'm not in the right headspace for dating and I don't
Backing out of plans at the last minute is rude, whether it's for mental health reasons or not. All over social media I see memes that say "It is OKAY to cancel plans if you aren't feeling mentally well" or "TFW your friends think you're a shitty person for backing out of plans but you're really just going through a tough time."
Focus on yourself 100%. If youâve taken the time to prioritise your well-being, donât spend the evening feeling guilt or regret. Learn to enjoy your party for one. 2. Remember that FOMO is
What I've taken on this is to focus on the action, how it makes me feel, is it what I want. The action was to cancel dates or change the plans last minute (he would have been 3hrs late for me on each date if he had his way), it didn't make me feel good and I don't want to date someone that flakey who can only see me in the evenings. He can make it up to you and it may end up being a better date. If you don't really care much about him, then forget him and move on. It really all depends on how much you like him/where you want things to go. But I personally don't think him cancelling the date with couple hours notice is a deal breaker. 8. They owe you an apology and an explanation, even if the explanation comes later once whatever came up has been somewhat resolved. If it isnât something that just came up, they had time to cancel the plans before it got to the last minute, and if they knew well in advance they shouldnât be making these plans with you from the get-go EcVbA.
